We are making choices every instant. We may be aware of it and choose consciously or merely choose by default and not use our creativity. Just like a performance is shaped by every single member of the team, every single thing one does contributes to what happens in life. You can act by default or you can take responsibility in your role as co-creator, you choose.
Imagine a knot. A rope wound over and under and around itself so many times in so many ways that it’s confusing to comprehend exactly what’s going on.